Death is a Teacher

September 19, 2023

Notes from Scott Sutton's sermon on Sunday, September 17, 2023.

Sermon text: Ecclesiastes 7:1-14



1.) Death teaches us more about life than birth can.

You are supposed to linger at the funeral home. You are supposed take your time at the graveside. You are supposed to not rush through mourning the loss of a loved one, because in the lingering and mourning, there is a lot to learn about life. In fact, without entering into the house of mourning, we lack the wisdom needed for a life that produces gladness of heart.


2.) Death teaches us that we are not in control

 If you are in denial of death, you have believed the myth of control.

 We set our schedules and make our budgets. We invest wisely and try to avoid pitfalls. We have a plan and a back-up plan. The idea of death gets in our way. And for many, it is avoided, and instead they seek an escape...


3.) Denying death leads to escapism

 MIRTH v. 4 Those who don't want to go to the house of mourning, go to the house of mirth. They try to escape reality. Mirth - Endless laughter and light heartedness...Partying, substance abuse, and recklessness. This is foolishness. Death teaches us that it is wise to be soberly in touch with reality.

 MONEY v. 7 talks about bribes and extortion. These are the ones who try to escape reality through money. They try to control people and circumstances with their money. This is foolishness. Death teaches us that the love of money leads to many self-inflicted wounds that you will regret on your death bed.

 IMPATIENCE v. 8 says that the end of a thing is better than its beginning, and the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit. Some try to escape reality by acting as if they shouldn't have to put up with anything that it an inconvenience. Their pride leads them to being impatient with their spouses, children, friends and coworkers. This is foolishness. Death teaches us that patience is a virtue because life is a blessing even when things don't go your way. Stop acting like you are supposed to have a life where you don't ever have to do anything that you don't enjoy!

 ANGER v. 9 exhorts us to not be quick to become angry, for anger lodges in the heart of fools. Maybe you have met a person who is perpetually angry. They act as though life has dealt them an unfair hand. They constantly tear down the people in their lives because their appetite for control has lodged anger in their hearts. This is foolishness. Death teaches us that life is better lived in kindness.

 NOSTALGIA v. 10 "Say not, 'Why were the former days better than these?' For it is not from wisdom that you ask this." This one feels like it becomes more prevalent as time marches on. A longing for the good old days. Back when I was a kid... This is foolishness. Death teaches us that you can desire for things to be better, yet still be completely out of touch with reality.


All of these things are foolish. Death pushes us into reality, and in doing so, pushes us into

wisdom.


4.) True wisdom is learning to live with the limitations of wisdom itself. vs 7, 13-14... Wisdom can be corrupted. Wisdom cannot change everything. Wisdom cannot predict the future. We pray for wisdom, but it was never God's plan to give us wisdom so that we no longer need HIM! Ephesians 6:12 says, "For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places." I am burdened that evil is well organized while the local church often is not. That reality drives me to pursue good order and wisdom and stewardship for the church. But, if evil is so well organized, the way that we overcome evil isn't with the wisdom of being better organized! We need God! Wisdom is limited and God is not! All of the wisdom in the world cannot prevent catastrophes, failures, loss OR death. Don't give way to the fear of death. Don't try to escape reality. Allow death to lead you to wisdom. And allow wisdom to teach you its own limitations. Fear God and keep his commandments. By the mercies of God, present your bodies as a living sacrifice. Your created purpose is to glorify God. And because of God, we can glorify Him in both life and death. He is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. He never leaves or forsakes us. As we really lean into the reality of death, we know that it is the wage we are owed because of our sin. All have sinned and fallen short of perfection. We have wronged a holy God. We deserve His wrath. But by faith, we receive the gift of Christ. And instead of God's wrath being poured out on us, He pours it out on his perfect, beloved, spotless Son. This is what we are reminded of when we take the Supper every week. 1 Corinthians 15 beautifully proclaims... "O death, where is your victory? O death, where is your sting? The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. But thanks be to God, who gives us victory through our Lord Jesus Christ."




Discipleship Questions:

  1. How do you feel about funerals? Be honest... 
  2. Why is it dangerous to be in denial about death?
  3. In what ways do you try to "escape" from the realities of life and how can you lean into wisdom?
  4. How can nostalgia be a dangerous thing?
  5. What are some of the limitations of wisdom?
  6. What does it look like to cling to God when wisdom fails?
  7. Why is God trustworthy? 



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