Imperishable Beauty
Notes from Ky Martin's sermon on Sunday, May 11, 2025.
Sermon text: 1 Peter 3:1-7
A wife who submits to her husband:
- May win him to Christ
“We also see a connection with the counsel given to slaves in that both wives and slaves were under authority, and these authorities were liable to oppress those under them.” -Thomas Schreiner
The phrase “without a word” means wives should refrain from badgering their husbands about their need for conversion. Thomas R. Schreiner
- Is submitting to God
Submission pre-dates man
“Women need to stop being so offended about being asked to submit to an equal. Christ did not consider it robbery to humble himself and submit to an equal, and neither should we.” -Rebekah Merkle
Submission is grounded in creation order
1 Cor. 11:7-9 "For a man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God, but woman is the glory of man. 8 For man was not made from woman, but woman from man. Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man"
“So we see that the submissive wife—far from being the weak-willed woman our culture portrays, is actually a model of inner strength. By Gods’ grace, she has conquered this opposition within her own heart.” - Carolyn Mahaney
- Is precious to God
Proverbs 25:15 "With patience a ruler may be persuaded, and a soft tongue will break a bone."
1 Peter 2:21,23 "For to this you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, so that you might follow in his steps…When he was reviled, he did not revile in return; when he suffered, he did not threaten, but continued entrusting himself to him who judges justly."
Husbands:
- Lead with understanding
- Honor your wife.
Discipleship Questions:
- Why does our culture balk so hard at the idea of wives submitting to their husbands?
- Has that influence crept into the church?
- Wives, what are the practical blessings you’ve found in submitting to your husbands?
- What does a “gentle and quiet” spirit look like?
- Why are wives referred to as “weaker vessels”?
- Husbands, what are some practical ways in which you can show honor and understanding to your wives?


