The Bride of Christ
From Pastor Lance Shumake's' sermon on Ephesians 5:22-32:
It’s true: our church is full of sinners. We fall short daily. We are an imperfect people.
The people in Paul’s church at Corinth were just the same. They painted a picture of the New Testament church that included divisions, factions, and cliques; pride; confusing worship services; false teachers; spiritual immaturity; pagan practices; lack of generosity; hypocrisy; and sexual sin. It was far from perfect; yet, God worked through them and loved them even so.
In his first letter to the Corinthians, Paul addresses the church there with thanksgiving, “I give thanks to my God always for you because of the grace of God that was given you in Christ Jesus, that in every way you were enriched in him in all speech and all knowledge—even as the testimony about Christ was confirmed among you—so that you are not lacking in any gift, as you wait for the revealing of our Lord Jesus Christ, who will sustain you to the end, guiltless in the day of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is faithful, by whom you were called into the fellowship of his Son, Jesus Christ our Lord.” (v. 4-9)
Even as messed up as the church was, Paul leads with an outpour of generous love. It causes us to ask: why does Paul love such an imperfect, messy, dysfunctional church?
...the answer? Because God does.
God loves His church.
The church is not a building. It is not a place. It is not somewhere you go on Sunday mornings. It is a people. It’s who we are. We are the church.
God’s word tells us that church (the local gathering and covenantal relationships we have with one another) is a big deal!
Because God loves the church, we are to love the church. It should be a significant, central part of our lives. We should arrange our lives around it.
Over and over again in Scripture, we see the church referenced as “the bride of Christ”. There’s this covenantal, marital relationship that is meant to help us understand the relationship Jesus has with His people. Revelation tells us of a marriage between Jesus (the lamb) and His bride, the Church. This image leads us to a few responses:
(1) It shows up in our love for Jesus. We love Him because He loved us first. He demonstrated His love for us in that while we were still sinners, he laid down His life for us. Our love for Him is a response to that. And, as Jesus tells us, “if you love me, you will keep my commandments” (John 14:15).
(2) It shows up in that it gives us a desire to pursue holiness. In Ephesians 5:26-27, Paul is clearly talking about what Christ is doing to the church. He wants us to be pure and holy; to shine brightly as lights in this world.
The pursuit of holiness only happens in the context of community. Godly community is designed to point us to a higher righteousness and a higher way of life. Through it, we are sharpened, challenged, and held accountable. We are able to become more like Jesus when we are walking side-by-side with one another.
Because Jesus loves the church, we should love the church.
Love means action. It means that we are going to show with our lives that we value the church and that we are committed to our local body. Loving the church means that we are engaged, involved, and generous with our time, talents, and resources. It means that our value of belonging to the local church takes precedence over everything else in life.
Do you desire to grow your love for the church? Pastor Lance offered a few ways to do just that:
- Pray for your church. Find time for systematic, disciplined prayer. Pray for church leaders, community groups, serve teams, church body needs, etc.
- Look for evidences of grace. Instead of dwelling on what you don’t like, look for evidence that God is at work in His people. Celebrate those things and lean into them.
- Trust the process. God assures us that He is faithful to complete the work He has started in us! We must trust Him in that
- Invest in your church.
Where your treasure is, there your heart is also. Be generous with your resources, your time, and your family
- Engage and serve. Church is not a place to just come and attend; it’s about being known and serving.
We love the church because God loves the church.
Let that love show up in our actions.


